I am not sure where to start. But Arthur was born and is doing very well. Amanda and I never thought we could love him so much but we do. He has become the center of our world in all aspects. I respect Amanda so much for her support and care for this little person. For the first time I have desire to make more money for a different reason other than myself. I wish I could afford to let Amanda stay at home with Arthur for a few years. I am worried because I know how upset she is going to be when she has to go back to work and needs to leave him behind. Her mothering instincts are amazing. My temper is always a little on the short side and I am working on becoming more understanding and just trying to keep him happy. The time Amanda and I get to spend with each other is very limited, almost to the point we have oppsite schedules. I am such a heavy sleeper and sometimes dont hear him wake up at night, but she does and at times I feel bad I did not hear him and help out. He is a little stinker and everyday he opens his eyes a little more and screams a little less. It is still too early to see his personality yet, but he is growing fast. It has only been 2 weeks but it feels like much longer. I miss them while I am at work.